Proud of my Dad

[Claireflo]

Today was the funeral of my Dad's best friend, who he's known since he was 16. Dad has barely left the house for months except for hospital appointments and has been so upset by his passing. I said I would go to the funeral on his behalf. Yet somehow he was up by 9, worrying about what to wear, determined to get there.

Somehow he made it through a service at the Crematorium, a service at the church and a short time at the wake (with just a short break in between).

It was very emotional but the family were so grateful. I'd worried about people looking at him in his neck brace and with his machine to talk but no one did, instead he saw old friends he'd not seen for ages and had a good chat with them, his sense of humour ever present despite the circumstances.

He's shattered now but I couldn't be prouder of my stubborn and fiercely independant dad.

[Deb]

Oh my goodness Claireflo. Your dad is an inspiration and so brave. I'm sure he's very proud of you too xx

[Bowler]

What a formidable team you and your dad are.

[ChrissieM]

That’s wonderful. Your Dad is an inspiration xx

[Ellie]

Claireflo The apple didn't fall far from the tree, did it 😉

An emotional day for you both on different levels. xx

[shelly21]

Oh what a lovely read. 💞

[Claireflo]

Thanks all for your kind comments. I expected it to be difficult but the fact that the Crematorium is the one I shall use for my lovely Nan and amazing Dad when it's time added an extra emotional challenge.

I started the day hoping to fade into the background, to help Dad through, but he was greeted with kindness and friendship and as I saw him 'chatting' away I grew stronger and taller as I became even prouder of my Dad battling on with grit and determination.

MND is a horrible illness but you all show such strength each day and we (family and friends including virtual ones!) see that and are so proud, even if we don't always say it!

[Music man's wife]

You are a lovely daughter xxx

[KimB]

Your Dad is so very lucky to have you in his corner. Beautiful bittersweet story.

[Zante]

Claireflo That is such a brave and emotional post and so well written. You can see where your character and positive warm attitude came from! xx

[Claireflo]

Thanks Music man's wife we're all just doing the best we can. Hope things have settled down a bit x

Thanks KimB that's very apt as Dad used to be a boxer!

Thanks Zante that's kind of you to say. Hope things are a bit better for you x