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  • Nettie
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    I met the lovely Dina in hospital, we hit it off straight away, I was only in a couple of days but we always chatted and she even persuaded me to to get my peg done before I needed it. R.I.P lovely Dina 💞

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  • Doug Carpenter
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    Many, many thanks folks!

    Doug x

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  • matthew55
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    I wish I had known her. We have a short but precious time here and when one goes we all feel it. RIP Dina. x

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  • Deb
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    Oh Doug , I'm so sorry you have been going downhill recently. It is lovely to hear from you, however and thank you for posting on here to remind us of this thread.

    I will always remember Dina's positivity, humour and caring nature. I remember her sending a message to anyone alone at Christmas in what must have been a matter of days before she died. Such an inspiration.

    This Christmas has been especially poignant and I have missed being with friends and family. We did have an hilarious brunch in the garden trying to open presents and juggle bacon sandwiches and mulled wine in the freezing cold. It took the rest of Christmas for me to warm up and my sons were emotional because we were not together for the day but we appreciated being able to see each other.

    Like Dina, I try to appreciate the positives and I know that I am lucky to be eating, talking and breathing relatively normally 3 years after diagnosis and also I am lucky my husband is a brilliant carer. I am relieved my son and his wife, who is pregnant recovered from COVID and I am so excited about our first grandchild. I am also hopeful about receiving a vaccine soon.

    Like Lynne I am comfortable in my riser recliner, especially when I have a good book or music.

    Big hugs to you Doug x ( there's an extra x for you !)
    Love Debbie x

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  • Lynne K
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    Firstly something positive about Dina. What a lovely lady, easy to get along with and positive right up to her end. I counted her a personal friend despite having only had one face to face with her. She still figures in my minds eye.

    Now for other positivity. Firstly, we’re relieved that our four family members in Holland with COVID-19 are on the mend. The first to go down with it has now had a normal temperature for two day and feels clear of it.

    I’m still wobbling about with my walker at home 38 months after diagnosis but I’m sitting like on my rise and reclaim chair just now. My feet are up like lady muck. I got a smashing book off my daughter ‘Sarah Waters,’ Fingersmith.’ I‘ve set myself up for an afternoon with this, what indulgence 😉, Lynne

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  • Doug Carpenter
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    Dina – In Memoriam

    As we approach the first anniversary of Dina’s death, I’ve been desperately trying to find something positive to post here.

    I’ve failed. The last three months have gone remorselessly downhill for me.

    I’m hoping that somebody will be able to post something joyful here and keep this wonderful thread she gave us – and her memory – alive.

    Many thanks!
    Doug

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  • SueM
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    Originally posted by GaryM View Post

    Hi Sue. I claimed the day after the MND consultant had confirmed my diagnosis. I was originally told it was MND in July but then I was referred by my original consultant to a specialist MND consultant. As the claim form asks for the name of your consultant I was reluctant to give the name of the original one in case any communication got lost and I didn't know the name of the one I'd been referred to until I saw him in September. At the time I filled in the form I had no use of my left arm, badly affected speech and my right arm was beginning to get weaker. In the three months since, my right arm has become a lot weaker and I now need my wife's help to wash, dress and eat. Hope this helps.
    Gary, thank you that’s very helpful

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  • GaryM
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    Originally posted by SueM View Post

    Hi Gary, I’ve got the forms to fill in, wasn’t sure when the right time would be to apply. I too am thinking that I will be lucky to get my pension so at least I will hopefully get something for all the years of NI.
    love Sue x
    Hi Sue. I claimed the day after the MND consultant had confirmed my diagnosis. I was originally told it was MND in July but then I was referred by my original consultant to a specialist MND consultant. As the claim form asks for the name of your consultant I was reluctant to give the name of the original one in case any communication got lost and I didn't know the name of the one I'd been referred to until I saw him in September. At the time I filled in the form I had no use of my left arm, badly affected speech and my right arm was beginning to get weaker. In the three months since, my right arm has become a lot weaker and I now need my wife's help to wash, dress and eat. Hope this helps.

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  • GaryM
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    Originally posted by Shaun View Post
    Hi Gary,
    hope you don’t mind me asking, I’m 2 months in since applying, did you have a phone interview or straight forward claim approved,
    ( I’m not expecting full award as I’m still mobile)
    shaun
    Don't mind you asking at all, Shaun. Nobody contacted me at all. My consultant did send a DS1500, but I don't think this speeded up the claim. I wasn't sure what level I'd get as I can still walk. Someone told me that with a confirmed MND diagnosis you automatically get the full amount because of the rapid progression, but I don't know if that is really the case. I also raised the length of time it was taking, with my MP. Not sure if that had any effect either.

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  • Ellie
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    GaryM Great news - one less thing for you both to worry over.

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  • matthew55
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    Off topic but my MND will kill me before I loose mobility. 😊

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  • Shaun
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    Originally posted by GaryM View Post
    I got my PIP claim back today, after waiting almost three months. Awarded the full amount, which was nice. At least my wife doesn't have to phone them up again to tell them I've got worse. I think of it as an advance payment of the state pension that I probably won't see, after paying NI for forty years.
    Hi Gary,
    hope you don’t mind me asking, I’m 2 months in since applying, did you have a phone interview or straight forward claim approved,
    ( I’m not expecting full award as I’m still mobile)
    shaun

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  • matthew55
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    It's worth checking for old work pensions as they can be paid out

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  • SueM
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    Originally posted by GaryM View Post
    I got my PIP claim back today, after waiting almost three months. Awarded the full amount, which was nice. At least my wife doesn't have to phone them up again to tell them I've got worse. I think of it as an advance payment of the state pension that I probably won't see, after paying NI for forty years.
    Hi Gary, I’ve got the forms to fill in, wasn’t sure when the right time would be to apply. I too am thinking that I will be lucky to get my pension so at least I will hopefully get something for all the years of NI.
    love Sue x

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  • matthew55
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    Welcome to the club 👍😉😂

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