paralysed and living alone

well today I went to mcmillan day care as normal to come back to find she has emptied the house. even covered the security camera. I am still not seeing my son. I called the police but nothing. I am going to a new solicitors tomorrow as the last one has done nothing. today is a new low. I am beyond broken

[Kayleigh]

Hi Iv,
Good for you for staying brave and strong!
I hope that your solicitor doesn't let her solicitor take much longer to respond. It is criminal that you are not being allowed to see your son. I hope that you get justice and that arrangements are made for you to see him very soon.
Best wishes,
Kayleigh

We do feel for you Lv;

Solicitors are not the speediest of people in the best of times but if she's told them not to rush!!!!!!

It is a terrible situation but I hope the carers are going well. Try not to involve them too much.

Love Terry

carers going well Terry. the more I have to pay the solicitors the less she will get when I'm gone. my boy is worth every penny.

[Terry]

We do feel for you Lv;

Solicitors are not the speediest of people in the best of times but if she's told them not to rush!!!!!!

It is a terrible situation but I hope the carers are going well. Try not to involve them too much.

Love Terry

well I have now been living on my own for a month and still not seen my son. waiting to hear back from her solicitor. I haven't contacted her because to be honest if I seen her again in this lifetime it would be too soon. when she said what she said in that instant I was done with her. no one should use their child as a weapon.

Oh my goodness my heart goes out to how could anyone be so callous ? I sincerely hope your solicitor can make things happen quickly for you.

[Kayleigh]

Hopefully with the help of your MND nurse you should get to see your son on a regular basis. It is so sad that your wife does not seem to have any compassion and that it has come to this. Hopefully, you will get to see your son very soon.
Kayleigh

[shrew]

I really hope the mnd nurse can help, you have the right to see your Son

My mnd nurse is going to help me with my son if I can see him. I have not seen him for 4 weeks now and it kills me. I have one friend and no family. Advocacy won't help since I have contacted a solicitor. So now it's the waiting game to hear back from her solicitor. Time I am rapidly running out off. In amongst all this my care agency pulled the service without explanation that would have left me being put in a care home. The carers were disgusted with this and now work directly for me now. Finally a small glimmer of hope that life is worth living.

[kd1]

HI there IV73,

I've only just realised you are in Scotland. Do ask MND SCotland for support from their advocacy worker in the first instance, but they do also do advice on benefits (perhaps Power of Attorney also?) and offer counselling. You should have a MND nurse-specialist who can act as the gatekeeper to all sorts of help. I can well imagine that finding the energy to access all this will be a struggle, but go for it,
Your predicament is terrible but there are people out there who would have your back.

[nunhead_man]

Hi IV73

well it's nearly been two weeks now ...............................

I'm a bit stunned by your story - makes me realise how lucky I am with support I get which I sometimes take for granted.

On the power of attorney issue we had somebody come along to the S. London branch Coffee afternoon who was a power of attorney expert. Would you like the contact details? She had got to where she was as a result of dealing with power of attorney in her own life.

My only caution is I think you are in Scotland and the rules may be different in Scotland to England and Wales but I guess this person if she cannot help might know somebody who can

[Jer788]

Iv73, I've read your letters and find them distressing. Me and my wife have had some barneys and she finds it hard as we are no longer the same person being able to do the same things but we soldier on. As Terry asks, have you no close family or friends ? My heart goes out to you, let's find this bloody cure so we can get our lives back.
Jerry x

well it's nearly been two weeks now of living on my own and just having carers in twice a day in four hour blocks. my heart is broken from not seeing my son but I am taking on the fight with every part of my being. as for her if I see her again in this lifetime it will be too soon. karma will come.

[Iron Will]

i'll be honest, if she was mine I would have had her shot by now.

my wife is perfection itself.

[Terry]

Hi Lv73;

Has she got power of attorney at the moment?

Have you got a good friend or close family?

Don't know if you can talk well or at all as it makes getting your point across easier.

I guess she's had advice from another person and reckons she can get the house back by digging the claws in and twisting them.

Maybe the Mnda can send a visitor around to help you through this.

It's so crawl that you are having to deal with all this by yourself.

Sorry I can't pop around and listen and maybe help.

Hugs, Terry