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    Hello from Scotland (I'm not sure entirely where this forum covers),

    My boyfriend (aged 32) was diagnosed in January this year, after 2 years of testing (or waiting for appointments I should say, until someone took things seriously). Left arm completely gone now and right arm 20% functioning, as well as balancing troubles and a few falls around the house already.

    I've been looking at this forum for quite some time and not been brave enough to post up till now. He's quite a private person and he'll admit more of an introvert than myself. I've been a complete mess to say the least and reckon I could write a book or a movie on the last two years alone never mind what's ahead of us. When I think about things for too long i just break down. Never had any requirement for mental health assistance previously but first session booked in this week as don't want him to see me tearful constantly and a method to offload I guess. He seems to have come to terms with it (Besides having not told his family yet. A huge task, I know, but I know that'll be the extra support we need. However may have to wait an extra few weeks now with Covid), but I can notice moments of sadness for sure.

    He stopped working at the end of last year and I've been working full time until getting furloughed 6 weeks ago and given the diagnosis, has probably been a blessing in disguise to be around as things slowly progress and assistance is needed more. Who knows what big decisions I'll need to make when they lift measures further.

    Anyways, I just wanted to say hello to all and I'm sure I'll have questions along the way, as we're going to have to learn as we go, like most.



    Hello Tess,
    I’m 37, I’ve had MND since July last year, this forum and the people in it have been my greatest support, your not alone, if anyone doesn’t have the answer, they’ll point you in the right direction


      Hi Hayls,

      So bazaar that this post has appeared. I knew I wasn't going crazy when I thought I posted it the other day, so I re wrote one also. Must sound like a repetitive robot now haha.

      Thanks for your reply. I hope joining a network will help answer some questions.



        Welcome Tess. Please don’t ever feel there are questions you can’t ask. It’s a lot to take in but try to take a step at a time otherwise you will feel overwhelmed.


          Thankyou Miranda!



            Hi Tess

            Thanks for answering some questions which is very helpful for me to solve problems by joining this network

            Peter james


              Hi Tess, well done for your courage to join this forum. A great decision certainly. I’m sorry about the two year journey that you have both been on. It’s not surprising that you feel the need to offload and I hope that the sessions you have booked prove to be helpful.

              Has your partner received all the support that is due to him, such as OT, Physio and Speech Therapist?

              When you feel a little stronger it’d be a good idea to broach the conversation of your parter doing voice banking. I don’t want to overload you so more about that later. Take care, Lynne
              ALS diagnosed November 2017, limb onset. For the 4 yrs previously I was losing my balance.

              I'm staying positive and taking each day as it comes.


                Hello Tess, I found out I had MND this year. The only way I can deal with it is by taking one day at a time, the future may be set but it hasn't happened yet has it? Be Strong x
                Bulbar started Jan 2020. Mute and 100% tube fed but mobile and undefeated. Stay Strong 🤗😘🤗😁xx